Thinking About Goals Differently

In the book, "Super Coach," the author, Michael Neill, introduces a new way of thinking about goals that can revolutionize how we approach personal and professional development. According to Neill, most people think of goals as destinations they want to reach, but this approach can be limiting and ultimately unfulfilling.

Instead, Neill suggests that we think of goals as directions or orientations that guide us toward our desired outcomes and results. This means we don't necessarily stress out or fixate on one specific endpoint but rather focus on the journey and the continuous progress we make toward our goals. In this pastor’s words, we need to focus on heading in the right direction. 

By shifting our mindset in this way, we open ourselves up to more possibilities and opportunities for growth. We can remain open to new experiences and adjust our goals accordingly as we gain new insights. The Bible says that a double-minded man is unstable in all his ways ( James 1:8). However, this does not mean that you can’t change your mind, especially if you have been introduced to new information over a period of time. Flexibility in this area allows us to be more adaptable and resilient, which is essential for success in today's constantly changing world.

Moreover, we can find greater satisfaction and meaning in our everyday lives by viewing goals as directions rather than destinations. We can appreciate the small steps we take toward our goals and celebrate our progress rather than waiting for significant achievements to happen. This approach can help us cultivate a sense of joy and fulfillment in the present moment, which is essential for long-term happiness.  

I often talk about people that are moving but not going anywhere. In this case, you are moving, and you are moving in the right direction. You are on the road to success, and because of that, you are already experiencing a portion of success in which you should be proud.

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