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Money's Secret Language

Mar 26, 2023

Did you know that money has a secret language? This is the premise of David Krueger's book, "The Secret Language of Money." In the introduction, Krueger explains that our beliefs and attitudes about money can have a profound impact on our financial behaviors and attitudes. He argues that by understanding the secret language of money, we can improve our relationship with it and help us achieve greater financial success.

First, let me say that this book is a great resource for anyone looking to improve their financial health. Krueger explains that money is a magnifier, meaning that it has the power to amplify both our positive and negative traits. For example, he says that money can exaggerate your character. In other words, if you are a problem drinker, money can create more drunkenness. If you are insecure, money can make you paranoid, and the list of magnifiers can go on. But then Kruger also says that money not only magnifies, it amplifies. It amplifies who we hope to be, amplifies the fears of who we might become, or amplifies the regrets of what we may never be. He says that money gives form to our fantasies and shapes our compulsions.


Having a healthy relationship with money can help us achieve our goals and live fulfilling lives. But if we have negative beliefs about money, it can hold us back and cause us to make poor financial decisions.


One of the key insights from the book is that money is not inherently good or evil. Instead, it is our relationship with money that determines its impact on our lives. Krueger writes, "It is not the love of money that is the root of all evil, but the lack of love for money that is the root of all evil" (1 Timothy 6:10).


So how can Krueger's book help you improve your relationship with money? It can help by guiding you in identifying and overcoming the limiting beliefs that hold you back. Krueger provides practical strategies for shifting your mindset around money, such as reframing negative thoughts and emotions and developing new habits and behaviors.


If you're struggling with financial issues and want to improve your relationship with money, I highly recommend reading "The Secret Language of Money." And if you would like additional support, assistance, and guidance, consider scheduling an appointment with me. As a pastor and life coach, I have helped many individuals and couples overcome financial challenges and achieve greater economic well-being. So don't let money hold you back from living the life you want – take action now to improve your relationship with it today.


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